My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of years and we live together. During the holidays we both usually go visit our parents in our respective homesteads, we were both to visit our mothers during the recent holidays I left a day before him and he was to travel the day after me but when I called to find out how his trip went he informed that we had been burgled the day before, due to concern I sent my best friend to go check in on him and he house to make sure he was okay and when she got there she informed me that he had in fact been burgled but by women he brought home from the club according to the watchman, I’m so mad I can’t even see straight. What should I do?
Well, this is a situation and a half. Assuming that your best friend isn’t just making this up to get you away from a man she dislikes. There’s only one thing to do.
Kill him. Figure out a believable alibi with you best friend and possibly a way to dispose of the body. Because what level of disrespect is this? Not only did he cheat on you but he got you robbed too? I’m sorry to say it but his untimely death is the only way you can find peace.
I’m a 28 old year old, educated and interesting woman, and I’m single. I’m very single. My last serious relationship was five years ago and I’m reaching a point in my life where the pressure of being an unmarried African woman is getting to me. I have a younger sister who is 23 years old who everyone keeps reminding that she can’t get married until I do, the pressure from family is a lot and my biological clock is ticking. What should I do?
I’d like to know who decided that siblings need to get married in chronological order, who came up with this convoluted logic? If your family thinks that the only value that you bring to them is by being married then I think that you need to get a new family. Seriously, go underground change your name, your address, your phone number, your job, your everything. Move to a new city and just live your best life whose fulfillment is not dictated by whether you want to push a baby human out of your vagina or not.
Run away sis, run.
